For a long time I did what most people do when something feels off: I picked the most visible problem and attacked it. New training plan. Stricter food rules. An evening routine borrowed from someone whose life looked nothing like mine. Each one worked for a while, and each one came apart the first time a fortnight got difficult.
What eventually changed things was far less interesting. My sleep was broken, which meant my energy was unreliable, which meant food decisions were made at the worst possible time of day, which meant training was the first thing to go. There was never a discipline problem. There was one weak link, and everything downstream of it was doomed until it moved.
That is the work I do now. People come to me about weight, exhaustion, stress or sleep, and we spend the first session finding out which of those is the cause and which are simply the symptoms shouting loudest. It is often not what they expected, and it is almost always more manageable than they feared.
I coach adults with full, complicated lives: shift workers, parents, people running businesses, people recovering from a stretch that took more out of them than they admitted at the time. The tone is supportive and direct in equal measure. You will not be told to try harder, and you will not be told something is working when it is not.